I am 36 years old, and I am having a double mastectomy. In 2019, my young mom was diagnosed with breast cancer after a routine mammogram. There was no family history of breast cancer, so it was a shock. But she was assured it was caught early and she would survive this unexpected battle. (FLASH FORWARD – She’s Cancer-Free!)
In the meantime, I met with my OBGYN to talk about my
potential breast cancer risk. Shocking to both of us, the basic risk assessment
she performed showed I was now labeled “high risk” for breast cancer. This new
label meant I needed to start mammograms earlier than typically requested (age
40). I had my first mammogram at age 36. It came back clear.
My mom proceeded to have breast cancer surgery to remove the
cancerous area and was ready to begin her follow-up cancer treatment when her
oncologist pushed her to get genetic testing. There was no family history, so this
seemed like another unnecessary doctor’s appointment. But since my mom and I
have both had melanoma, the doctor just wanted to be sure there was nothing
else going on.
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There was something else going on. The genetic testing came
back to reveal my mom has a rare breast cancer gene known as PALB2. This breast
cancer gene is similar to the one you may have heard about in the news from
celebrities like Angelina Jolie called BRCA, which is linked to breast cancer
and ovarian cancer.
Unlike the BRCA gene, the PALB2 gene has not been linked to
ovarian cancer. Still, the risk for breast cancer recurring or occurring in her
other breast was significantly higher than the rest of the population.
Her plan changed overnight. Instead of undergoing cancer
treatment following her lumpectomy, she would have a double mastectomy to even
more significantly reduce her chances of having breast cancer again.
At this same time, the genetic counselor pushed for her
daughter (that would be me) to have genetic testing done as well. So I did. And
the test revealed I also have the PALB2 gene.
Suddenly, I had a breast cancer care team and appointments
with doctors. I had three options. Make healthy lifestyle choices and hope for
the best, have a mammogram once a year and a breast MRI once a year, or have a
double mastectomy.
After watching all my mom went through in 2019 and believing
my body is done having babies, I have made the decision to have a preventative
double mastectomy. It is a highly personal decision, but it is one I find
empowering. I get to make this decision – my mom didn’t have that opportunity
before she found out she had breast cancer.
Fortunately, due to the significant risk of developing
breast cancer because of this special gene, my insurance covers the cost of
surgery and reconstruction.
While I know my life is ultimately in God’s hands and He
could call me home at any time, I am thankful for the advancements in medicine
that have provided me the opportunity to beat cancer before it's started.
Shauna Niequist (who I LOVE) writes in her book Savor, “When
you realize that the story of your life could be told a thousand different
ways, that you could tell it as a tragedy, but you choose to call it an epic,
that’s when you start to learn what celebration is. When what you see in front
of you is so far outside of what you dreamed, but you have the belief, the
boldness, the courage to call it beautiful instead of calling it wrong, that’s
celebration.”
And so, the weekend before my big surgery, I had a “Bye-Bye
Boobs Bash” with all of the women who have supported me. There was food and
drinks (boob-shaped cakes and cookies and lots of pink wine) – and there was
celebration. Because, at the end of the day, I am choosing to see this as just
a small but powerful chapter in the story of my life.
Plus, we collected more than 20 bras to donate to Donate Your Bras, an organization that supports breast cancer survivors and women in distress.
