It's Halfway Through 2020. Here are 10 Books That Have Helped Me Survive.

2020 has been one wild, crappy ride. Between having major surgery, tornadoes, a pandemic, and a moment of racial reckoning, I have managed to read 44 books in the first half of the most tumultuous year my generation has ever born witness to.

That's why I chose books that wind up all over the place. I leaned heavy into fluff fiction and rom-coms, trashy memoirs, and ridiculous thrillers.

 

And I am not ashamed! Actually, given what I've learned this year, I am proud to recommend all of these books because there is a time when we just need to read for fun or read to escape.

 

Here are 10 books that have helped me survive the first half of 2020

(And because I don't think you need to read a full review to be enticed to read it yourself, these reviews are super short.)

Hollywood Park

by Mikel Jollett

If you want to feel very literary and hip, read this memoir by the lead of Airborne Toxic Event about his cult upbringing.

The Guest List

by Lucy Foley 

If you want an Agatha Christie whodunit that keeps you guessing until the very end, this is a fun one.

Such a Fun Age

by Kiley Reid

If you want to learn about racism through fiction, this is a quick read with a fab story that will leave you thinking.

A Witch in Time

by Constance Sayers

If you need a fantasy escape, this one you'll read like you did Twilight (in other words, super fast).

Station Eleven

by Emily St. John Mandel

If you want a literary escape from this current pandemic by reading about a worse pandemic, this one is for you. Plus, read it before you watch the HBO miniseries.

Beach Read

by Emily Henry

If you want a true rom-com beach read, then look no further than the aptly titled Beach Read.

The Wives

by Tarryn Fisher

If you want a can't-put-down over-the-top thriller (with polygamy), then The Wives will have you gasping and laughing at its absurdity.

Open Book

by Jessica Simpson

If you want the complete opposite of a literary memoir like Hollywood Park, then dive into Jessica Simpson's fun and scandalous memoir.

 

The Wedding Party

by Jasmine Guillory

If you haven't started the terrific rom-com series by Jasmine Guillory, what is wrong with you?

Be the Bridge

by Latasha Morrison

If you want to learn more about why racial reconciliation is so important, then this Christian perspective is a great starting point.

 

I am 36, Having a Double Mastectomy, and Throwing a Party

I am 36 years old, and I am having a double mastectomy. In 2019, my young mom was diagnosed with breast cancer after a routine mammogram. There was no family history of breast cancer, so it was a shock. But she was assured it was caught early and she would survive this unexpected battle. (FLASH FORWARD – She’s Cancer-Free!)

In the meantime, I met with my OBGYN to talk about my potential breast cancer risk. Shocking to both of us, the basic risk assessment she performed showed I was now labeled “high risk” for breast cancer. This new label meant I needed to start mammograms earlier than typically requested (age 40). I had my first mammogram at age 36. It came back clear.

My mom proceeded to have breast cancer surgery to remove the cancerous area and was ready to begin her follow-up cancer treatment when her oncologist pushed her to get genetic testing. There was no family history, so this seemed like another unnecessary doctor’s appointment. But since my mom and I have both had melanoma, the doctor just wanted to be sure there was nothing else going on.

Our Suntan Years

There was something else going on. The genetic testing came back to reveal my mom has a rare breast cancer gene known as PALB2. This breast cancer gene is similar to the one you may have heard about in the news from celebrities like Angelina Jolie called BRCA, which is linked to breast cancer and ovarian cancer.

Unlike the BRCA gene, the PALB2 gene has not been linked to ovarian cancer. Still, the risk for breast cancer recurring or occurring in her other breast was significantly higher than the rest of the population.

Her plan changed overnight. Instead of undergoing cancer treatment following her lumpectomy, she would have a double mastectomy to even more significantly reduce her chances of having breast cancer again.

At this same time, the genetic counselor pushed for her daughter (that would be me) to have genetic testing done as well. So I did. And the test revealed I also have the PALB2 gene.

Suddenly, I had a breast cancer care team and appointments with doctors. I had three options. Make healthy lifestyle choices and hope for the best, have a mammogram once a year and a breast MRI once a year, or have a double mastectomy.

After watching all my mom went through in 2019 and believing my body is done having babies, I have made the decision to have a preventative double mastectomy. It is a highly personal decision, but it is one I find empowering. I get to make this decision – my mom didn’t have that opportunity before she found out she had breast cancer.

Fortunately, due to the significant risk of developing breast cancer because of this special gene, my insurance covers the cost of surgery and reconstruction.

While I know my life is ultimately in God’s hands and He could call me home at any time, I am thankful for the advancements in medicine that have provided me the opportunity to beat cancer before it's started.

Shauna Niequist (who I LOVE) writes in her book Savor, “When you realize that the story of your life could be told a thousand different ways, that you could tell it as a tragedy, but you choose to call it an epic, that’s when you start to learn what celebration is. When what you see in front of you is so far outside of what you dreamed, but you have the belief, the boldness, the courage to call it beautiful instead of calling it wrong, that’s celebration.”

And so, the weekend before my big surgery, I had a “Bye-Bye Boobs Bash” with all of the women who have supported me. There was food and drinks (boob-shaped cakes and cookies and lots of pink wine) – and there was celebration. Because, at the end of the day, I am choosing to see this as just a small but powerful chapter in the story of my life.

Plus, we collected more than 20 bras to donate to Donate Your Bras, an organization that supports breast cancer survivors and women in distress.